I’ve recently returned from a holiday in Turkey, and while we were there, we travelled on the local bus service, the dolmuş. Those of you who have used local buses abroad will know that they’re not always for the faint-hearted.
On one journey the bus was particularly full, so the driver invited me to sit beside him in the front passenger seat. What followed was less a bus ride and more a white-knuckle experience. It was more terrifying than anything I’ve encountered in a theme park. The traffic seemed to be coming from every possible direction, and people were making their own lanes in an effort to try and beat the traffic, and the driver’s confidence was considerably greater than mine.
When we finally reached our destination and climbed off the bus, my friends asked me, “How was that?” To which I replied, “I might have prayed… more than once!”
Now, I confess that those prayers were not particularly eloquent. They weren’t beautifully crafted theological reflections. They were simple, urgent pleas for help. In that moment, I became very aware of my vulnerability as a human.
And that’s often how prayer works. When we know our need most clearly, we almost always turn to God.
In today’s gospel, A woman approaches Jesus with extraordinary courage. She has every reason to stay away. She belongs to the wrong people, she is from the wrong place, with the wrong background. She is a Canaanite, a Gentile, an outsider. Yet her daughter is suffering, and that love drives her forward – towards Jesus.
She cries out:
“Have mercy on me, Lord, Son of David.”
It is one of the simplest and most beautiful prayers in Scripture. There is no pretence, no lengthy explanation, no attempt to impress. She brings her need, her love for her daughter, and her faith that Jesus can help. She simply asks for mercy.
At first, she receives silence.
Then resistance.
Then what sounds painfully like rejection.
For many, it is one of the most challenging encounters in the Gospels and raises many questions. Why does Jesus seem so reluctant? Why does he not immediately respond? That’s not the Jesus we know.
Whatever else is happening in this exchange, one thing becomes clear. The woman refuses to give up. She believes that the mercy of God is greater than any obstacle that is before her.
And, after some discussion, Jesus says to her:
“Woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish.”
And her daughter was healed.
It’s not just a story about persistence in prayer. It’s a story about the wideness of God’s mercy.
This outsider discovers that she is not beyond God’s love after all.
The excluded suddenly find themselves included.
The one who appeared furthest away is welcomed into the embrace of God’s grace.
In our reading from Romans. Paul has been wrestling with the mystery of God’s dealings with Israel and the inclusion of the Gentiles. His conclusion is one of hope, not exclusion.
He reminds us that:
“The gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable.”
God doesn’t abandon his promises.
God remains faithful.
And then Paul hits us with the sucker punch:
“For God has imprisoned all in disobedience so that he may be merciful to all.”
Not merciful to some.
Not merciful to the respectable.
Not merciful to the religious.
Not merciful to those who seem to have their lives together.
But merciful to all.
That doesn’t mean that sin doesn’t matter. It does mean that mercy has the final word.
The ground at the foot of the cross is level.
The Canaanite woman comes needing mercy.
Paul comes needing mercy.
We come needing mercy.
And that recognition changes how we live.
It encourages us to pray.
The woman’s example reminds us that prayer is not about finding the perfect words. It is about knowing where to turn.
We have moments when life feels rather like that Turkish bus journey. We face uncertainty, grief, illness, anxiety, difficult decisions, or situations beyond our control.
The invitation of today’s Gospel is to turn to Christ.
Not necessarily with polished prayers.
Perhaps simply with:
“Lord, help me.”
“Lord, guide me.”
“Lord, have mercy.”
The Canaanite woman teaches us perseverance.
She continues even when the answer seems absent.
Many of us may know that feeling. We pray for healing and don’t see it immediately. We pray for peace and continue to struggle. We pray for answers and encounter silence.
We are reminded that persistence in prayer is itself an act of trust.
Faith is not believing that God will always do what we want.
Faith is trusting that God is faithful, even if we cannot yet see what is happening.
Today’s readings challenge us to look at things differently.
If God is merciful to all, then we are also called to reflect that mercy in our own lives.
It is easy to divide the world into insiders and outsiders.
Easy to decide who belongs and who doesn’t.
Easy to judge before we understand.
The Gospel message repeatedly overturns those assumptions.
The person we overlook may teach us faith.
The stranger may reveal God’s grace.
The one whom society excludes may be closer to the kingdom than we imagine.
Every person we meet is loved by God.
Every person we meet is someone for whom Christ died.
As we gather around the altar today, that is the deepest lesson of all.
Holy Communion isn’t a reward for the worthy.
We don’t come because we’ve earned a place at Christ’s table. We come because Christ has invited us.
We come trusting in his mercy.
The Canaanite woman discovered that there was a place for her.
Paul discovered that God’s mercy was wider than he could imagine.
And we are invited to discover the same today.
For the God whom we meet in Jesus Christ is a God whose gifts and calling are irrevocable, and whose deepest desire is mercy.
“For God has imprisoned all in disobedience so that he may be merciful to all.”
Amen.
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